18)....Is LIFE coincidental or is it meant to happen the

I have always had this burning desire to figure things out..... I have to get to the bottom things and I just figured out if I write all this stuff down and let it go, it won't bogggggggggggggggg me down anymore, I can really let it go instead of Never Letting it Go..... Holy Moses...... I'M HAVING A HUGE LIGHT BULB MOMENT PEOPLE! At least I'm honest about it.

So many, oh so many strange and unexplained situations or feelings or moments in my life that have puzzled me along the way. I don't want to even pretend to be psychic...... But. There are so many crazy situations in my life that are off the hook... I mean... How could I not write about them and re-live them so to speak....

Okay, I told you about how my bed and dresser and blanket and pottery were in this house that I live in 2 years before I ever was.........

I told you about Craig introducing me to Steve..
I told you about Steve's Dad giving me the number to Steve...
I told you about the crazy feeling I had about those peach tiles in the bathroom when I was 15..
I told you about the time I was supposed to go and see my Grandma and put my hand thru the window. Divine intervention or something!!!!

Now listen to this one......

Steve and I got married and lived in an apartment. We were having a party and our next door neighbor's Dean and Sheri. Said they wanted to invite Dean's sister Debbie. So we said, " Sure", not a problem, The more the merrier.. So here we are just hanging out in our apartment and there's a knock on the door......... Those knocks on the door always mean something.. We just don't quite know what to expect when we open it. Sorta like LIFE right!!!!
So anyways, Here is Dean, Sheri, Steve and I and Chuck and Kathie..... We are just being 20 something's..... We are just chillin out when there's a KNOCK, KNOCK, KNOCK on our door...
I'm starting to laugh as I write this because my head is being filled with all these crazy situations that I remember for some damn reason!
Okay, So I hear the knock, I go to the Door and open it..... There stands Debbie, a girl I went to Kindergarten thru 12 th Grade.. At my door... I say, Hi Deb, what in the world are you doing knocking on my door. She laughs and say's OMG Kathy LaFleur, You live here.... My Brother Dean and his wife Sheri invited me over to Steve and Kathy's...... YOU ARE THE KATHY! If you could have heard the roar of laughter from everyone else.. They were like, Kathy- Only would something like this happen to you! Deb and I hugged so tight and just had the most fun that night catching up on the past few years. It was really a fun night to remember. Dean had a different Father than Deb, and they both went to the same High School and Dean actually dated my sister Sherry and when he found out that I was Kathy LaFleur- Sherry LaFleur's sister....... We about died........ Dean knew me as Kathy Wilson.... When Deb said, Kathy LaFleur.... I can't tell you how Dean was shocked, Deb was shocked, Sheri was shocked that Dean dated my sister. And Steve..... He just shook his head and we still laugh about it to this day! I never saw Dean when he dated my sister.. I had my own life and they must have only briefly dated... So no questions.... I'm just saying Freaky things happen to me all the dang time and I'm trying to figure out why!!!!!!!!!!!!!

© Kiki LaFleur-Wilson